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Smokin’ Hot

I’m a smoker and my boyfriend has a smoking fetish. He likes it when I smoke while we’re having sex; he likes to jerk off and watch me smoke; he likes me to smoke and give him oral sex at the same time. His porn collection is all smoking-related. I’ve really enjoyed participating in this fetish. However, I know I must quit. He has suggested that I might be able to smoke on occasion, but I am an addict and I won’t be able to smoke “just one” during sex. I am worried that my boyfriend will lose interest when I quit smoking. I know he loves me, but I’m worried that his fetish is strong enough to ruin our relationship if it’s not fulfilled. Can a guy get over his fetish? Is there a way to replace his need for smoking with something that won’t kill me? Or should...

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