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I’ve been with my guy for almost eight years. He wants sex way more often than I do, but I don’t want it because I’m not attracted to his 80-pounds-overweight body. The one time I gently broke it to him why my libido was low, he acted really hurt and didn’t sleep with me for a few weeks. He didn’t go on a diet either. I’ve tried convincing him that I want him to be “healthy” so he’ll feel better and live longer, tried cooking healthy food at home, tried getting him interested in exercising. It’s not working. This isn’t vanity weight, he is clinically obese. The next time he chides me for having no sex drive, do I tell him bluntly?

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