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Stepdad Seeking

My stepdad is gay. He married my mom anyway, and they appear to have a strong relationship despite his sexual preference—they love each other, had a baby together, and seem to be committed. A few days ago I found a search for “men seeking men” on his computer. I brought up the subject of their relationship with my mom without telling her what I found, and she said that they’re currently monogamous. Should I tell my mom, confront my stepdad, or just keep my mouth shut?

Stepdaughter Needs Assistance For Understanding

There’s this sex advice columnist. He’s gay, like your stepdad, but he fell in love with another guy, and they appear to have a strong relationship—they love each other, had a baby together, and seem to be committed. So why does this sex advice columnist occasionally check out “men seeking men” ads on the...

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