My boyfriend, Jason, is having problems with a boy named Roger who is obsessed with him. But because Roger is friends with Jason and Jason’s friends, Jason won’t just tell him off. Roger had the audacity to call Jason today and ask about our sex life. Roger is not only making Jason’s life hell, but he is also making their shared friends’ lives hell. On top of it all, Roger called Jason’s ex, Cody, and told him about me. Cody is a very sweet boy and does not need Roger making him feel like shit because Jason is dating someone new.
I don’t want to get in the middle of this. I just want to know if you have any ideas I can relay to Jason as to what to do about Roger?
Really Mean Friend
Ah, college drama.
Your letter really took me back, RMF....
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