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Roller Pervy

I’m a 23-year-old straight male. Due to a rare autoimmune attack three years ago, I have been indefinitely confined to a wheelchair, paralyzed from the waist down. I was never sexually active before the attack, so now I’m left to face my sexual future from a significantly altered perspective. The important thing to remember is that I can still engage in sex. I can’t speak for all men that use wheelchairs, but I think a common misconception that many people have is that we automatically can’t have sex. I have always been very healthy and, aside from being in a chair, I still am. I would like to pursue physical relationships with women, but how do I let them know I can still perform without just coming out and saying it? “Hey, nice to meet you. I can still have sex, by the way. So, read anything interesting...

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