I’m a 47-year-old man and my wife is 49. We got married four years ago. Two days ago, she came back from the doctor and told me she has genital herpes. She said she must have contracted it years ago and never had an outbreak until 10 days ago. She has been to the doctor countless times over the years. I don’t know what to think. Is it really possible she didn’t know? I know she needs me to be loving now, but it’s hard when I can’t believe she just found out. If she knew about it and lied, my trust is destroyed. Also, how can our marriage survive when I can’t bring myself to have sex with her? What do you think?
Marriage In Serious Trouble
I think you’re being a douche, MIST.
But, hey, everyone’s entitled to a little douchebaggery now and then. The wife’s got a...