More than a few times, you
have implied that if one’s partner is unwilling to satisfy, the
deprived person has a right to seek it elsewhere. My sex life with my
wife, despite my best efforts, is infrequent and uninspired. I recently
met a married woman who has had a nonexistent sex life for many
years.
We like each other immensely and are
compatible in many ways, including in our sexual desires. Neither of us
wants to divorce our spouses, as the other areas of our lives are fine.
But we are considering becoming sex buddies. My question for you, Mr.
Savage: Are we required to discuss this with our spouses? Neither would
be agreeable. Or since both our spouses have made their lack of
interest in sex clear, can we go about this without informing our
respective partners? Or would that make us cheating
spouses?
Long Deprived...