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I hope you can help me. I am a
39-year-old divorced mother of four. I’m also a grandmother. I’ve
started seeing a younger man, age 25, who is only a few years older
than my oldest kid. We hit it off great and other than the sex,
everything is beautiful. The problem is that my sex life with my
ex-husband of 20 years was very free. We did everything from toys to
bondage to watching porn together to three-ways. My new guy is not
happy that I have a collection of toys or that I watch porn, have been
to strip clubs, etc. He likes “regular” sex and he refuses to use toys
or do anything in the adventurous realm. How do I even talk with him
about what I like without scaring him off? I love being tied up and
spanked! Plus he has never done oral and doesn’t even want to try!
HELP!!!

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