My boyfriend and I have been
dating for four months and we’re crazy about each other. He’s been
slowly introducing me to butt play. Last night, we were verbally
playing out an anal scenario. He asked if I’d be okay using a strap-on
with him, to which I replied, “Of course!” Then he said that he had a
harness and dildo in the closet. I balked. This brought up two specific
issues for me.
(1) What is good sex-toy etiquette? Can
you use sex toys in one relationship and then in the next one? Also,
when I’ve been with women, it was NOT okay to reuse sex toys. They died
with the relationship. Is it different with heteros?
(2) Can you recycle sex toys with your
recycling like you would other plastic products?
He said he’d be happy to buy new sex
toys if it bothers me so much. But we’re both
ecofriendly and
don’t want to...