I’m a straight male and I love my
fiancée. But while I am physically attracted to her, I find
myself masturbating rather than having sex with her. She knows, but we
don’t talk about it—we can’t—and recently she walked in on
me, and it was very awkward. I put it away and she pretended she didn’t
see.
At first I assumed I was masturbating
because I was prone to romantic “dry spells” and was used to taking
care of things. But at this point, she’s sleeping in the other room and
I’m quietly jerking it, knowing that I could have her.
Right Handed Man
If you and the fiancée are too
immature or ashamed to discuss the state of your sex life—your
preference for your right hand, your lack of a strong sexual
connection, what she saw and when she saw it—then you’re not
ready for marriage, RHM. Period. If you...