I’m a 33-year-old man, married eight
years and mostly happy. My problem seems common: My wife has lost
interest in sex. We have sex once every two months, maybe once a month
if I’m lucky. When we do, it seems to be good for both of us. We used
to have great chemistry and were both GGG in better days.
I’ve been faithful, but I’m nearing some
kind of tipping point. On a recent trip, I visited a strip club for the
first time. Even though I knew the attention I was getting was fake, it
still did the trick. Feeling desired, even in a superficial way, is
something I’ve been missing. Once my wife mentioned that she would be
okay with me going to a strip club, so I feel like I haven’t violated
our relationship. But I feel like I’m getting pretty close.
I don’t know what to do. I could...