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My husband and I recently realized that in order for us to remain happily married, we need to fuck other people. Enter the boyfriend. This 20-year-old hunk has opened the floodgates. He’s gorgeous and athletic and enthusiastic, gets me off every time, and tales of our exploits have made things even hotter between my husband and me.

So what’s the problem? Well, after two months and numerous sexual encounters, my new lover has yet to get an erection. I know he’s been able to get it up with previous partners. Maybe there’s a subconscious part of his brain that doesn’t want to bone a married woman? I’ve made it clear to him that there is no pressure and that I am more than satisfied. He insists that he is attracted to me and that our current activities are incredibly satisfying.

Am I missing something, Dan?

Nouveau Mrs....

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