1. Why do so many people — even kinky ones — regard the Daddy/babygirl dynamic as hot but think Mommy/little boy role play is disturbing?
Because people can’t stand to see middle-aged women happy and in control.
2. Am I on the asexuality spectrum or do I just have a very low sex drive 95% of the time? How can I know for sure?
There’s no genetic test for asexuality, just as there’s no genetic test for heterosexuality, homosexuality, or bisexuality. So, while you can’t know with absolute certainty whether you’re truly asexual or just have a low sex drive, you’re free to embrace the asexual label if it feels right and/or helps you communicate with prospective romantic partners. Remember: the asexual spectrum — which runs the gamut from sex-repulsed asexuals recoiling from sex scenes in movies to asexual sluts racking up impressive body counts — is...