I just read your response to New to This in Canada, the girl who can’t get into giving blowjobs. How dare you say that “most people don’t enjoy giving blowjobs,” Dan?!? Most people I know love giving blowjobs, myself included, and here are some pointers for NTTIC culled from my years of experience:
1. You can do a lot without actually blowing him. You can lick his balls and put your finger in his ass and pretty much drive him crazy without even having him in your mouth.
2. Change speeds! Starting slow and sensual and gradually getting faster while making appropriate noises can coach him onto a convenient timeline.
3. You can stop before he comes and have him DO YOU. Switch back and forth!
If you approach oral sex like it’s an obligation, you’ll never really want to do it. Instead, try to have fun! I enjoy...