When you warn against being a huge fucking slut, I know that I agree, but I don’t know if I’m being a huge fucking slut. I’ve had anal sex (with protection!) on the first date, and I’ve had sex with guys without quite remembering their names. But my lifetime sex-partner count is not that high (20!), even if I am a youngish gay guy who can’t go online without some dude asking me if I “bb” (bareback!). Help me, Dan! How do I know when I’m being a slut?
Still a Little Unclear on This
Before we get to your question, SLUT, I’d like to say a few words to the folks out there, gay and straight, who want the whole bug-chasing subject to go away. (Straights want it to go away because it’s not about them; gays want it to go away because it makes us look bad.) Sorry, gang:...