I am in a relationship with a man who recently told me about something that he used to do before we met. He is flexible enough to give himself a blowjob, he said, and used to do this often to get himself off. I didn’t think it was possible for men to do this, but he showed me–he can still do it! And he swallowed! Is this sort of thing normal for men to do? For straight men? How common is it?
Worried and Concerned
Seeing as how I’m writing this column in the deepest pit in gay hell next to Rufus Wainwright’s colon–the Big Cup coffee shop on Eighth Avenue in Manhattan–I think it’s only appropriate that I answer a few questions from readers who, like me, are quickly succumbing to gay panic.
So, WAC, your boyfriend can suck his own dick. Don’t panic. His...