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Possible Side Effects

Joe Newton

I’ve got a confusing issue with my girlfriend. Our relationship was going great until I caught her having an emotional affair via MySpace. She swore to never hurt me again. Well, I recently found out that she posted an ad looking for NSA sex. She responded to several people who contacted her. When confronted, she encouraged me to look through her e-mail, to prove her innocence; but her e-mail proved her guilt. There was tons of evidence that she had been planning an affair—naked pics in her e-mails, contact information, pictures of guys. She says she doesn’t remember doing any of these things.

My girl has told me that she is bipolar, obsessive-compulsive, and has mental ailments. She’s been on meds since she was 12, but I never knew to what extent until now. She’s on four different meds. I’ve since found out about lots of other lies she has been...

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