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I’m a 20-year-old bi girl and I’ve been with
my boyfriend a little over a year. We’ve talked about having an FFM
threesome, but the first time we talked about it, we realized that we
were not on the same page, and now every time I try to bring up the
possibilities of a threesome, we end up in an argument. I’d like to
talk about some rules, just in case it happens as he imagines
it—we pick up a girl at a bar—but he won’t talk to me,
because he claims that it would make a threesome not as spontaneous.
Also, there’s an unspoken worry that my desire to have a threesome is
just a way for me to explore having sex with a woman while he watches.
I admit that this is what I was most interested in, in the beginning,
but I’ve since gotten pretty turned on by the idea...

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