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Label Me

I am a heterosexual male in my 20s, and I need some
help putting a label on my kink/fetish. I usually don’t care much for
labels in any aspect of life, but I’m hoping that knowing what to call
this may help me find others who share the same interest: I love it
when a woman watches me masturbate. She doesn’t have to touch me at
all, take off her own clothes, or play with herself. However, she has
to enjoy watching me for me to enjoy performing. I have no interest in
“flashing” or otherwise imposing myself on someone who doesn’t want to
watch. Also, I don’t want to show just anyone; I just enjoy being
watched by a woman.

I’ve seen some CFNM porn, but that often seems to be more about
humiliation, which I’m not interested in at all.

Wanting A Named Kink

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