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I’m a 38-year-old straight
male
in a long-term relationship. We have two children. My
spouse and I have been physically disconnected for years. This led to
some rather sleazy adulterate behavior on my part. We recently
discussed the topic (at which time I informed her of my indiscretions);
we have decided to remain together for our children because we work
well together as parents and we are good friends. We have also decided
to “open” our relationship. We both want the same thing: a companion of
the opposite sex, a lover. My spouse has one. It is someone I am
acquainted with, and I know him to be a responsible person. I have been
looking, but no luck. I posted an ad online, but only managed to
attract a Russian scammer. Some direction would be appreciated.

I should mention that I am very
good-looking, in superb physical condition,...

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