I feel ridiculous e-mailing
you, but I figure that if anyone has heard of all manner of ass-hole
behavior during sex, it would be you.
I’m a 17-year-old girl, and I’ve only had
one boyfriend—who was, at the time, 21 and, I thought, perfect.
The only thing that’s still bothering me is the reason we broke up.
After promising that he would never hurt me, and reassuring me that he
was SO passionate about contraception, I agreed to have sex with him
and lose my virginity. And in the middle of fucking me, he removed the
condom without a word! He was hoping I wouldn’t notice! I did
notice—and I kicked his ass to the curb. He cried, he sent stupid
gifts, and still calls. At least he didn’t get me pregnant.
How upset should I be about this? Or is this
something that horny males do? I’m not traumatized. I...