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Saddlebacking?

Here’s your chance to deal with the problems
of a couple of senior citizens: I am a woman in my late 60s, and my
“boyfriend” is five years older. We were lovers long ago. He came
looking for me a few years ago and we reunited. We live on opposite
sides of the country, so we only see each other for a few weeks every
year. For various reasons, that is unlikely to change.

I love this man very much. Our sex life is
great, and the rest is pretty good, too. All of the things I loved
about him fortysome years ago still apply. He is kind, generous, smart,
and funny.

I have known for a couple of years that he
was interested in BDSM. He sees himself as a sub. I found out when he
accidentally (?) left something on my computer. But he claims that all
he does is “chat” online with a number...

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