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Spank U

Is this Dan? Probably not, probably an assistant, but maybe this will get to him. I have a spanking fetish. I live in Oakland, California, so San Francisco is close. Seems like the best place in the country to have a kink, but I’m having a hard time figuring out where I can find a spanking community. I know there are BDSM clubs, but is there another way I can connect with spanking people? Any suggestions or resources?

Sincerely Panicked And Needing Knowledgeable Mentorship, Edification

This is Dan. I read all my own e-mail. And I found someone—all by my lonesome—more qualified to answer your question.

“This lady sounds like she needs to be punished,” Jillian Keenan joked when she read your e-mail. “I’d love to help her get what she deserves!”

Keenan is a very serious journalist who writes about very serious subjects—climate change, economic policy, nuclear...

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