It was a short question in quickies column (“Best lube for PIV?”) and an even shorter response (“Foreplay”). It was also an unhelpful and inadequate response…
Dan, I love your column—but I’m canceling you over your glib response to “Best Lube for PIV?” Foreplay? Seriously? Even if you’re joking, it’s not funny. I could have all the foreplay in the world and I’d never be wet enough for comfortable PIV for more than a minute or two. And believe me, I want ALL the minutes a guy can last. This requires the best lube money can buy. I prefer Astroglide gel, not the liquid. The natural aloe-based varieties still don’t last long enough for me. I’m 53, but have had this issue my entire adult life. In perimenopause, I experienced PIV like shards of glass and lube was the only thing that made it remotely tolerable. You should know by now that foreplay doesn’t create enough natural lube for most women, and if you choose to joke about...
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