I’m thinking about retiring “Reader Roundup,” which sounds a little sinister (cops roundup suspects, cowboys roundup cattle), and going with “Struggle Session” instead. What do you guys think?
After reading my advice for Close To Doing This in this week’s Savage Love (or was it ChatGPT’s advice?!?)—CTDT is a married man whose wife won’t fuck him, won’t work on it, and won’t give him permission to seek sex elsewhere—Zoftig the Magnificent weighed in…
I think that a guy who’s not yet forty is likely married to a woman who’s not yet forty, which means he shouldn’t secretly cheat to stay sane while staying married but should lay down the ultimatum that since it’s been eight years of fifteen years, he not going to stay chaste and if she can’t live with that, then she can make her own choices about what happens next. Is this guy really want to coast in this sexless and not really open relationship for the next 40...