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Commenters had a lot to say about my advice for MOM, the woman with a chronically-ill-and-might-be-dying husband she hasn’t had sex with in decades. He takes care his own needs with porn — enjoying genres that MOM finds offensive — but what about her needs? Says SohpieTucker…
MOM didn’t ask for rationalizations to justify taking care of her needs (which she should totally do), she asked for advice on how to broach...