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After Action Report #10

Escort Roleplay
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Her needs were simple. She wanted to wear a trench coat with nothing underneath and then pretend to be a high-end escort for her boyfriend. He gladly obliged and their session was full of surprises… If you have a dirty little story you would like to share of your first time doing something unspeakably hot, … Read More »

Panties for Sale!

On the Magnum: Mike Pesca on "Heated Rivalry"
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“Who will buy my smelly panties?” A woman realizes that it would be a waste to just wash them. A married man in an open relationship wishes his wife would be as affectionate as his lovers. On the Magnum, it’s everybody’s favorite guy who knows things about sports…Mike Pesca! (Host and creator of The Gist, … Read More »

After Action Report #9

2-Minute 3-Way
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The scene: it’s a secret three-way, upstairs at the party. 2 men, one woman, 2 minutes, one orgasm. To hear more salacious deets, tune in. We’ve heard of speed dating…but this is a whole other level. Do you have a tale to tell? Write it up and send it in: [email protected] Do you have a … Read More »

When Subs Date Subs

On the Magnum: Dr. Alicia Walker
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A married woman and her husband agreed to open the marriage up, with clear rules and boundaries. Guess what! He flagrantly broke the rules. Now, she is considering sleeping with someone else as a form of revenge. Too toxic? A divorced woman is still very good friends with her husband. She’s so close with him, … Read More »

After Action Report #8

The Tip Goes In...
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It was her first time pegging a man, though she’d dreamed of it for years. Dream fulfilled. How did it go? What did he wear? Who brought the gear? All of your (and Dan’s) nosey questions are answered. Do you have a tale to tell? Write it up and send it in: [email protected] Do you … Read More »

Ghosted? Or Dumped?

On the Magnum:Kelly Foster Lundquist of "Beard."
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A recent widow grapples with a surge in her libido. A gay man has been a top for all of his sexual life. Now that’s he’s a dating a man who wants to top him every now and again, can he learn to like it? On the Magnum, Dan chats with Kelly Foster Lundquist, Author … Read More »

After Action Report #7

400 Lashes
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Hear the harrowing tale of the masochist lad who walked into the dungeon and ended up getting flogged…a lot. Did he like it? Would he do it again? Listen and find out. Do you have a tale to tell? Write it up and send it in: [email protected] Do you have a comment for this show? … Read More »

Just Play. Don’t Roleplay.

On the Magnum: Dr. Carlton Thomas
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Listen in on Dan’s conversation with a woman who learned that her husband had an affair early in their relationship. It turns out she’s been chatting with the other woman for a year without knowing it was her! She lives up the street! Dan advises her on whether to broach the subject with her husband’s … Read More »

After Action Report #6

"I electrocuted my friends."
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Meet Chrissy, a bisexual woman and self-identified pervert, who went to a sex club for the first time. What happened there? Well, let’s just say you may feel…shocked. Want to tell your tale? Write us at [email protected] Gift a Magnum subscription to a friend or enemy for 1/2 off! That’s just $24 from Dec 1-31. 

Happy Trauma-Informed Thanksgiving!

With Therapy Jeff
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We know you’re struggling. So we brought in the most soothing human on the planet-Jeff Guenther a.k.a. Therapy Jeff- to offer tips on how to get through Thanksgiving with your nasty family. In short, don’t take the bait, find your family buddy, and if you are alone on the holiday, get thee to a gay … Read More »

After Action Report #5

Nipple Torture
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On this weeks After Action Report, Dan spoke with Milo, a trans man who tried nipple torture after getting top surgery. This is a joyful tale of sexual recovery. We hope you like it. We would very much like to hear about YOUR freaky funtimes. Write about your new sexual experience and send it to … Read More »

Sex & Politics #41: Manon Garcia

Trial of Entitlement
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Well, it’s been a minute, but at long last, here is a new Sex & Politics! This time around Dan welcomes the French philospher and femininist Manon Garcia. Her book “Living with Men” takes a cold hard look at the Pelicot trial. To recap, Giséle Pelicot’s husband of 50 years drugged her each night and … Read More »

Big-Dicked Neighbor

On the Magnum: A study on sex workers' motivations
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She dated her neighbor for a while, until it became clear that she couldn’t enjoy sex with him because his giant, massive, gargantuan penis was too big for her. Now that she is starting to date other men, should she tell them the history of her friendly neighbor 5 doors down? A woman has enjoyed … Read More »

Sneeze for Me Baby

After Action Report #4
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For this After Action Report, Dan chats with Ember, a life-long sneeze fetishist. She gets turned on when her lovers sneeze, and thus, stocks up on imported sneezing powder. And although she prefers being a sneezing dom, she also delved into submission and shares the details. Hear about her journey. We would very much like … Read More »

Humpy the Cat

On the Magnum: Dr. Debby Herbenick on GIRTH
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A mother’s challenge: her 12 year-old son’s lesbian friend (who isn’t out to her parents,) said that she was into gooning. Right in front of her! The mom wants to be an ally, but also would like them to back off on the oversharing. Sometimes on a sex advice podcast, you have to call a … Read More »

Squirting Kira

After Action Report #3
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This week, meet a woman who finally, after YEARS of persistence, has learned how to squirt. Practice makes perfect, and now she has mastered the messy art. Hear all about how she got there, what she plans for her squirting future, and “Is female ejaculate actually pee?” Kira ends the controversy definitively. Have you gotten … Read More »

Lovely Lesbian Fingernails

On the Magnum: "What You Got?" with Dr. Justin Mogilski
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A woman’s bisexual husband has been getting “gayer and gayer” to the point where he is only interested in her if she acts like a dude. Her friend is worried about her. How can this marriage work? Are there any straight leather daddies out there who aren’t misogynistic creeps? This caller is NOT HAPPY. On … Read More »

Dating Divorcees

On the Magnum: Ben Palacios from Palm Royale
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A woman’s lefty friend berated her for enjoying drag, saying it’s like blackface for trans women. The caller loves drag and had never thought about this before. Is it true? A straight man loves the idea of seeing a naked woman walking around her house. He wonders if others would love to see him naked, … Read More »

After Action Report #1

Sexy Spidey
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Welcome to our first stand-alone After Action Report! He got in a full body Spiderman suit. And then the action began. Hear Dan chat with the man who took cos-play to a whole new level. If YOU recently had a new sexual experience (good or bad,) write it up and send it in to [email protected] … Read More »

Creeper Tax

On the Magnum: "What You Got?" with Amy Muise
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A woman just started a dating a man 12 years her junior. But he doesn’t know her age, and has never asked her, even on her birthday. Should she tell him? A couple were approached by a man who initiated a relationship where he is their sex slave. But he is a very demanding slave, … Read More »

Happy Locktober to All Who Celebrate!

On the Magnum: Amp from "Watts The Safeword"
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Compare and contrast these two body image calls: A woman’s boyfriend is so insecure about his big body, that he can’t get hard. She thinks he’s hot as can be but can’t seem to convince him of this. Meanwhile, a man finds that most of the women he meets in his open relationship dating community … Read More »

Shibari for You and Me

Guest: The Persian Princess of Drag- Jackie Cox!
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Shibari for you and me! A woman and her boyfriend, (in an open relationship) tried shibari and enjoyed the intimacy of it. She suggested they exclusively practice shibari with each other, unlike all the other sexual activities they do with their other lovers. At first he agreed, but now he’s balking. Should she try to … Read More »

When Fear Turns You On

On the Magnum: BigDickBookClub!
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How can a woman safely indulge her kink when the thing that turns her on is fear? A man is convinced that his bidet use makes him pee more. Our long suffering, patient and kind medical expert, Doc Barak is back to sigh heavily and pretend to take the question seriously. Also, can we trust … Read More »

Boy on the Inside?

On the Magnum: Elise Loehnen on ENVY
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A gay man is lucky to be in a throuple relationship. But he worries that he’s having too much sex, and thinking about sex so much that it’s distracting him at work. Is he a sex addict? What can he do to cool his fevered libido? A strong, confident woman likes casual hook-ups. Her friends … Read More »

Pretend Your Girlfriend is a Watermelon

On the Magnum: With comedian Gianmarco Soresi
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A man in a poly triad has a girlfriend. His girlfriend has a boyfriend, and they all live together, share a dog, and plan to have kids. The caller and the other guy will be at a wedding full of normies who don’t know the nature of their relationship. Should he just say they’re a … Read More »

Meet Europe’s Best Bottom!

On the Magnum: John Thomas
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A married mother did some sex work in her younger, wilder days. She’s turned on by money, so it seems obvious that she should be a findom. But the typical clientele prefer a younger woman to take their money. How can she get her middle-aged kink on? Meanwhile, a gay man thinks porn is boooor-rrinnng! … Read More »

Dad’s Being SCAMMED by a Findom!

On the Magnum: Erika Lust
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A man’s 80 year-old father is getting scammed and extorted by a findom. Should he go to the police? Change his account numbers? See a marriage counselor? A gay man in his 20s looks very young. He worries that the men who are attracted to him may be skeezy because he looks more like a … Read More »

All Hail E. Jean Carroll!

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A woman’s old friend and sometime lover asked her for a beaver shot to ease his stress on an upcoming couples trip. She obliged. Did he thank her? No he did not. She’s miffed, and wonders if she’s being too sensitive. We love questions like this: What do gay men actually do with vibrators? Our … Read More »

Do I HAVE to Shave My Pubes?

On the Magnum: Kashana Cauley on the dystopian novel
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A cute li’l gal worries she just isn’t a very convincing dom. How can she use psychology to establish her sexy top role? A newly out pan man is ready to dive into gay culture. But he isn’t quite ready to shave his pubes! Does he have to? On the Magnum, Dan chats with novelist … Read More »

Third Vasectomy’s a Charm?

With Leo Herrera on AI porn and sex robots
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“Not generous.” That is what a gay man puts on his app profile to signify that he is not interested in sex workers. Is this offensive? Hear the heart-warming tale of how a woman spiced up her sex life by creating an Onlyfans account for only one fan- her husband. A gay man loves going … Read More »

The Dog Ate My Vibrator

On the Magnum: Erika Moen on hands free sex toys
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A woman is grappling with the dubious ethics of financial domination. Her friend asked her to do it, and she made a quick, easy $1k. But she knows that it is addictive and can ruin men’s lives. Should she continue? A gay man is being bothered to distraction by his straight pal who teases and … Read More »

“Um…I think you left something?”

On the Magnum: Melissa Febos on abstinence
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While tidying up after some Airbnb guests, a gay man discovered a vibrator left under the pillow. Should he message the couple and offer to send it back, or would that be too embarrassing? One year ago, a woman called the show about her boyfriend, and Dan advised her to break up with him. But … Read More »

Consensual Non-Consent Conundrum

On the Magnum: Arielle Domb on Sex Doll Hotels
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A woman’s boyfriend wants her to drug him, have her way with him and share him with her friends. He did this before with an ex, and loved it. She’s intrigued, but cautious. Should she do it? A straight man is miffed when women act like they want to meet for a second time, but … Read More »

Accidents Will Happen.

On the Magnum: Andrew Gurza on sex with disabilities.
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The woman in a married couple that does not want children accidentally got pregnant. This happened once before, and she learned that her husband is against abortion on religious grounds. Should she tell him she will end this pregnancy, or keep it secret from him? Do accidents happen in BDSM? They sure do! Hear the … Read More »

Sex & Politics #40: Jonathan Parks-Ramage

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For this episode of Sex & Politics, Dan chats with novelist Jonathan Parks-Ramage about his new book “It’s Not the End of the World” a dystopian novel with plenty of GAY SEX. Dan and Jonathan talk about how gay romance is often misrepresented in fiction, queer parenting, why kinky men are turned on the “fascist … Read More »

Sex Lizard

On the Magnum: Jena Martin from the Memory Hole Podcast
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A queer woman has a non-binary, AFAB spouse. Her partner can mime the action of cunnilingus with their tongue, flicking and teasing across the dinner table, like a horny lizard. The caller wishes she could do the same, but her tongue just doesn’t work that way. She also gets low marks on her oral technique, … Read More »

Dom Mommy

On the Magnum: Colby Jaxxx
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A woman in her late 40s is struggling to process a relationship she had when she was in college. She slept with a former professor of hers but then got rejected by him. After she moved away, she arranged a visit with him, and got rejected again. Now, over 20 years later, she’s wondering if … Read More »

Rainbows! Unicorns! Mermaids!

With LGBTQ+ historian Sacha Coward
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Her boyfriend of one year is perfect in every way! Except…he is stoned literally all the time. But he’s a great lover, communicates well, and truly loves the caller. So is this really a problem? Will it be eventually? A gay man was raised Mormon, and got the hell out. Now he’s living his best … Read More »

Straight Kinksters at Pride?

On the Magnum: TV Talk with Ashley Ray
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We start the show with two calls concerning the “post nut” state of mind. One man hates that he becomes selfish and unresponsive so much that he chooses not to come at all. Another wonders if we should start calling it “post-nut confusion.” Just in time for Pride, it’s a new After-Action Report! Hear the … Read More »

With Trans Comedian Nico Carney

And, an unfortunate squirting consequence.
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When she was in high school, she surprised herself and delighted her boyfriend by squirting all over his face. But the incident alarmed her enough to set off a neurotic need to pee before every sexual encounter. How can she get out of her head about it, and allow for spontaneity in her current, awesome … Read More »

Can I Peg My Dom?

On the Magnum: Comedian Jeremy Alder
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A married woman in a poly relationship is planning to visit a boyfriend who lives in a different city for a month. But since they made these plans, she started seeing yet another man. Should she tell the guy she plans to visit about the new guy? Should she do it before the trip so … Read More »

Honey? You Smell Like Your Girlfriend.

On the Magnum: Randy Rainbow
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A man in Nashville keeps having great dates, but then they reject him afterwards. Is it because he’s a liberal Jew? A woman is in a new, fun, casual relationship, just like she wanted. But he will be moving away in a few months, so there’s a clear end date. How can they enjoy themselves … Read More »

Sex & Politics #39: Blue City Blues

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On this episode of Sex & Politics, Dan gets to nerd out on urbanism, his (un)happy place. David Hyde and Sandeep Kaushik are the co-hosts of Blue City Blues, a podcast about what’s working – and what’s not – with the politics, governance and culture of the urban archipelago that defines blue America. They talk … Read More »

What Goes On at the Bathhouse?

On the Magnum: Katie Simon on Sex After Assault.
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A man in a queer group chat saw that folks were talking about going to a bathhouse in their city for the first time. The caller explained what goes on there, how consent can be slushy, and trans men might not feel welcome. This shut down the conversation. Was he wrong to tell it like … Read More »

Fake News! A history of The Onion with Christine Wenc

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A man briefly dated a guy who only bottoms, and collects a variety of giant dildos. The caller worries that his natural size would never satisfy a man like this, and wonders if this is just the standard psychology of power bottoms. A straight woman tends to be attracted to gay and bisexual men, though … Read More »

With Amanda Knox

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Oh, boy! A threesome might be brewing! A woman just connected with a hot guy through an app. He has another gal he sees, and the three of them plan to get together. But the caller is convinced that the other two are way hotter than she is, and she’s worried she’ll feel insecure and … Read More »

Language Barrier at the Orgy

On the Magnum: Dr. Debby Herbenick
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Ooh la la! A young Canadian woman has been living in a European city, making friends and… having group sex. She doesn’t speak their language- her friends are usually accommodating and speak English around her. But sometimes when the gang is banging, they revert to their native tongue and she feels left out. Should she … Read More »

In Defense of Faking Orgasms

On the Magnum: All Hail Zach Zimmerman!
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My what a busy friend! While a woman and her boyfriend were going through a painful, temporary separation, she confided in and was consoled by a male, bi friend of hers. He helped her through the difficult time. But he was also propositioning her ex-boyfriend at the same, damn time! Now that she is back … Read More »

Magnum Extra: Sex & Politics #38

Poly Power to the People!
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For the triumphant return of Sex & Politics, (after taking some very deep breaths and more than a few edibles,) we are delighted to welcome two important thought leaders in the realm of non-monogamy. Dedeker Winston is the co-host of the Multiamory Podcast, a research-based relationship advice show that centers non-traditional relationships. Brett Chamberlin is … Read More »

Do The Thing

On the Magnum: Adam Zmith on Poppers
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A chill married lesbian is a little annoyed to hear that her consistently straight friend, engaged to a man, has announced that she is pan. She is pan, but she plans to remain monogamous with her husband. What’s more, she is throwing herself a coming-out-as-pan party. When the caller came out as lesbian, she got … Read More »

Legal Advice for Trans Folks

On the Magnum: Dr. Jen Gunter on a new BV study
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A gay man and his boyfriend are in an open relationship. His boyfriend forbids the caller from messing around with anyone in their friend group. But this friend group is super-kinky and super-horny, regularly propositioning the caller for naughty fun. It’s getting hard to say no… A trans guy still has “female” on his birth … Read More »

Dirty Douche Water

On the Magnum: Dr. Stacy De-Lin on Menopause 101
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A woman has made a new exciting friend! But this friend ditches her other friends and treats them as disposable. Is the caller next? Here’s the kind of pragmatic question and answer you’ve come to expect from the Savage Lovecast: Is it safe to douche with non-potable water? On the Magnum, folks have been asking … Read More »

Blindfold Magic!

On the Magnum: Jeffery Self
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A man chanced upon his wife’s journals when he was cleaning the closets and couldn’t help himself: he read some of them, and learned things about wife’s sexual desires he hadn’t known before. It made him fall in love with her all over again. But now what? Does he tell her what he did? Or … Read More »

Our First After-Action Report!

On the Magnum: Javier Leiva on rooting out grifters.
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A woman is dating a new guy, and it’s going really well. The catch? He looks just like the old guy, and she’s worried her friends will judge her for it. In our first After-Action Report, a longtime listener shares her tale of first-time submission. It sounds like it won’t be the last time… On … Read More »

The Houseguest’s Unwholesome Activities

On the Magnum: Queer Lady Seeking Bisexual Men!
Episode #958 —
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A woman is seeing a guy who only grudgingly goes down south. Sex for them always begins with her giving him a BJ, but because they have a Dom/sub dynamic, he feels he doesn’t owe her anything. Here’s a fun word scramble game that astute Savage Lovecast listeners can play! Unscramble these letters to form … Read More »

Gooning: A Masturbatory Trance

On the Magnum: Magdalene Taylor
Episode #957 —
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Age gap relationships! Sometimes they are a-ok. Sometimes they are not. A woman is having an argument with her boyfriend about whether his previous relationship was dicey because of the 9-year age difference. She dated a younger person too, but the circumstances were different. Dan Savage (who knows from age gap relationships) weighs in. A … Read More »

Quiet Down, Yankee Lady.

On the Magnum: What Are You Doing, Sunshyne?
Episode #956 —
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A woman’s 74-year-old father has started dating a 19-year-old woman, and no one in her family besides her is batting an eye. She’s horrified and refuses to meet the lass or speak to her father until the relationship ends. Is she being too harsh? A British poly man has an American girlfriend who comes to … Read More »

Pages and Pages of Escort Ads

On the Magnum: Meredith Goldstein of "Love Letters."
Episode #955 —
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Pages and pages of escort ads. That’s what she found on her boyfriend’s phone when she was looking for concert tickets. He insisted he wasn’t actually contacting anybody, but was using them for his spank bank. Should she believe him? Is this a problem? A man recently come out as bi, and has a boyfriend … Read More »

A Very Poly Valentine’s Day

On the Magnum: Mike Pesca
Episode #954 —
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A married gay man is newly poly with his husband and boyfriend. Simple question: Who should he celebrate Valentine’s Day with? A non-binary AFAB person frequents a sex club where women pay much less than men or couples. And there’s a dress code…men must be naked, and women must wear lingerie. The caller wears the … Read More »

Sex & Politics: Tim Miller

He's baaaaack!
Episode #37 —
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Well, here we are. Trump is President again. The only way to get through this is to laugh a little. Dan brings on former foe Tim Miller, host of The Bulwark’s podcast and the author of the best-selling book “Why We Did It: A Travelogue from the Republican Road to Hell.” They talk about what … Read More »

Straight Boy Discovers Own Ass!

On the Magnum: Manuel Betancourt
Episode #953 —
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A straight man was accidentally paired with a trans man on a hookup app. When the trans man found out his match was a straight dude, he tapped out. But that got the caller thinking… should he search for pre-op trans men on Grindr in the hopes of connecting with trans men who haven’t had … Read More »

Her Cuckold Fantasies No Longer Work.

On the Magnum: Kelly Coyne
Episode #952 —
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A straight man worries that his one-on-one OnlyFans interactions are a form of infidelity. A divorced man is out dating and learning about tantra. A couple of women he’s seen were both mothers, and although he found them attractive and his dick got hard, he couldn’t come with either of them. They both blamed themselves … Read More »

Big Poly Mess in Aisle 4!

On the Magnum: Doc Chocolate!
Episode #951 —
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A gay man is mourning the loss of his hair. He shaved it all off, but doesn’t like the new look. Are there any other options? How can he learn to love the new bald version of himself? “Big poly mess in aisle 4!” She started seeing a married man who was new to poly. … Read More »

Oh Holy Day. Happy Feast of the Ass!

On the Magnum: Rebecca Woolf on "Babygirl"
Episode #950 —
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A very happy Feast of the Ass to you all! We asked you to send us your carols and boy, did you ever deliver. Hear a smattering of our picks, and we unearthed an olde choral piece that you and your family will surely treasure. Go to our Feast of the Ass page to learn, … Read More »

The Danger of the Truth Serum

On the Magnum: the Funny Dom Returns
Episode #949 —
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Everyone is feverishly preparing for The Feast of The Ass on January 14! Consequently, many of you have questions, such as “What is the proper Feast of the Ass greeting?” And “Shouldn’t the official Feast of the Ass dessert be the Tunnel of Fudge?” As always, Dan has the answers. A woman’s brother just got … Read More »

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