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Shopping Spree

I’m a 21-year-old female, and
I’ve been going out with my boyfriend for four years. He wants me to
masturbate for him, but I don’t feel comfortable doing it. I love my
boyfriend, but I cannot find a way to do this. I would like to do it. I
just can’t bring myself to let him watch.

Wishing And Needing To Satisfy

So don’t let him watch, WANTS—not at
first.

Here’s what you do: Get your ass into a
nice, cozy sex-toy shop—or visit one online (babeland.com, goodvibrations.com, comeasyouare.com, familychristian.com)—and buy
yourself a pair of nice, cozy blindfolds. Then go to a big,
intimidating hardware store and buy a big, intimidating roll of duct
tape. Then go to a bright, shiny Apple store and buy yourself a bright,
shiny iPod. Then have your boyfriend sit in a chair next to the bed,
put one of the blindfolds over his eyes,...

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