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No More Mr. Nice Guy

I am currently dating a guy
who is nice, funny, has a good “dating résumé,” i.e.
never married, good job, no issues. I have a good time when we are
together. The problem is that we have the most ridiculously boring sex.
Super vanilla, totally predictable, and I never come. There’s no
foreplay, he rarely eats pussy, and when he does it’s not good. It’s
totally frustrating, but other aspects of our relationship are
ideal.

As a result of this unfortunate
circumstance, I have started to have sex with my ex. He and I have the
most incredible sex. It’s kinky, delicious, and the most satisfying
I’ve ever had in my life. He worships my pussy. He carries a pair of my
panties in his pocket and just knowing this makes me want him even
more. The reason our relationship ended, though, was that he’s very
committed to his job, which...

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