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This week’s Savage Love left Paul feeling somewhat despondent…
This is one of the most depressing columns ever. It’s not just that the wife refuses to blow him, it’s that she does not seem to give a shit about, or even hear, his needs. He says, “I’ve raised it with her a number of times, but she just doesn’t think it’s important and, most frustratingly, plainly isn’t interested in trying to get...