Welcome to Struggle Session, my weekly back-and-forth-and-back-again with Savage Love readers and Savage Lovecast listeners!
Laura wasn’t sure where to leave this comment — about a recent Lovecast caller’s concerns — so she dropped it into the comment thread on last week’s Struggle Session, which was the perfect place to leave it…
Not sure this is the right place to post this comment, but here goes: About the woman on the last podcast who wants everything except PIV for a long time, Dan, you totally missed a big group of potential partners for her… guys with ED or performance anxiety! I’m pretty sure there are quite a few men out there who would be relieved to not have to worry about penetration without having to have an awkward conversation about their issues. And if my experience is anything to go by, you have a good chance of finding someone who’s taken the time to develop lots of other skills. I love a hard dick but I’ve had some of the best sex of my life with guys with unreliable erections (just as long as...